by: Patty Knap
The work done by men in the pro-life movement is critical.
There’s no shortage of stories surrounding us of men behaving badly — abandoning their children, pressuring their girlfriends to abort, trafficking young girls, making pornography. While these depressing reports bombard us, we seldom hear about the heroic men.
No one knows just how many men are involved in the pro-life movement but the work they do, usually behind the scenes, is crucial.
Pat is one of those men. He started helping out at the local pregnancy center a couple of years ago and looks around for anything needing to be done. He’s one of our “pick-up guys,” driving around to pick up cribs, car seats, strollers, Pack ’n Plays, etc., that folks want to donate but can’t fit in their car. Pat sets up a time to go pick up the things and bring them in to our office. There everything has to be checked for safety and cleanliness and then put in our ‘equipment room,’ until the next client comes along that needs it. Packing up his truck and then unloading and carrying the donations into our office is physically demanding and time-consuming but the things he brings in can be expensive when they’re new and they’re appreciated by our moms with young children. Thanks, Pat.
Jay was prompted to start working with us by an experience as a taxi driver about six months ago. As a taxi driver he was asked to take a pregnant woman to Planned Parenthood. He circled around, trying to get the young mom to realize the permanence of her decision and the sanctity of the life she was carrying. Jay told her he couldn’t assist in the ending of the baby’s life and therefore would take her home. He then took himself to an adoration chapel to pray for a while, where he felt guided to return to Planned Parenthood. “I had a feeling she went there to go ahead with the abortion and I had to do something about it. So I went inside and asked if she’d already had the abortion and they said she was still waiting.” He saw her through a window in another room and pleaded with her to come back out and talk to him. She did, and they were talking outside the building when two Planned Parenthood employees tried to get her back inside, not wanting to lose the business. They kept interrupting, so Jay took the woman in his car and drove around with her for the second time. He shared with her that he has two children and that she couldn’t imagine how much she would love this child.
Jay’s passenger broke down crying and said an abortion was really the last thing she wanted to do, but she felt trapped. He looked up the nearest crisis pregnancy center and brought her in to the office, where she met with a compassionate counselor later that day. After seeing her baby’s ultrasound, this young woman has ruled out abortion and is now praying for guidance for her decision between raising her baby and finding adoptive parents.
The day Jay drove past Planned Parenthood, he noticed a group of folks praying out front. He went back a few days later and joined in, and now goes there regularly to pray and do “sidewalk counseling” — trying to deter young adults from heading inside for an abortion and sending them over to our office instead for real help.
Pregnancy centers need maintenance work just like anywhere else. Around the country men give their time doing what’s needed. Matt spent two days painting badly chipped walls and retired men Ron and Charlie bought and set up new shelving to store car seats, Pack ’n Plays and bassinets, and assembled file cabinets for the pregnancy center, and are “on call” for minor repairs.
These are just a few of the great men who give their time and effort to support the work of a crisis pregnancy center.
Originally published by National Catholic Register on June 16, 2019
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